human or mutant

Im having one of those days and thinking about all the people in my life and how i relate to them and for the most part ive come to one conclusion its too damn hard to relate to people.if they not imposing their thoughts and ideas on you they are bullying you into doing what they want and if you dont,they will tell you how you have changed or how you dont love them anymore.then its the entitlement problem that people suffer from- they dont have to ask you about anything that relates to you or thats yours be it your resources,time whatever it may be because its alredy a given.
The fact that you are in each others lives simply means that they have access to what you have including you.so they dont have to ask and the two of you being blak and all thats a plus.

then there's those freaks that have the general misconception that we think the same way conduct our lives, households and behave the same way that they do, and when they are rudely awakened to the fact that you have a functioning brain, they cannot comprehend it-their brains shut down a buffer forms arround their brains that doesnt allow anything that resembles sense they go into "unreasonable-illogical mode" , and if whatever you say doent at any point feature in their manual on how you are supposed to act nothing you say will make sense to them.

theres that bunch that hasnt decided what is it that they want or the type of person they are,they have the groupie mentality they too busy being other people that they cant be the star player in their own lives,they wold rather be featured in another persons life than deal with themselves. their personalities change like a woman who has PMS you never know what is it you going to do or say thats going to set them off the rails,its hard to see things the same way or reach common ground on life,situations,decisions and generally on everyday things.if you have your own way of doing things that does not fall in with their ideal then you are screwed,prepare yourself for a screaming match of sorts.

i suppose thats why white people love animals-cause once you have trained them they will remain loyal to you because they understand you ,your likes and dislikes.they will react the same way evaryday all day.Dont get me wrong im not saying that people arent allowed to change their minds but they dont do so with minimal things that you cant just get over in 5min its usually big stuff that have you wanting to cuss someone out. and the annoying part is even if you try to show them your point of view and explain why they got you in a frenzy, they too hard headed to listen to reason.
i have in my time lost a number of friends ,relatives and boyfriends-some of the couldnt deal with the fact that i know what i want and how i want it.im not saying my way is always the right way but he comes a time in a persons life when you know and understand yourself , where you have decided what is it you will tolerate , accept or work with. and if all you ever deal with its people that make you want to relocate to antarctica so you can get peace of mind and never have to deal with their neurotic tantrums or get you stressed becase you know nothing they say will ever make you smile then by all means avoid them you simply dont need the headache or heartache.i believe that emotions are the things that screw us over-the very same things that makes us human are the same ones that put us at a disadvantage-they tend to cloud reason and judgement

relationships get so complex that you can never be frank with people you always have to pussy foot around them ,because reality is a far fetched ideal.an the many titles that people hold in yor life also play a role(mom,dad,bro,sis,gilfriend,hubby,friend,wife) you have to keep those in mind apart from other factors such as emotions,respect and sensitivity.im not canvasing that people should be obnoxious,rude and unbecoming but if it calls for it then why the hell not?? why should there be restrictions and threats of your "membership" being cancelled from their society.

we all going to have our fair number of friends and enemies and for the most part you hope that the friends will out number the enemies and if the latter applies then you simply know that you always did what is right just and fair to accomodate people and if they chose to be un accomodating about the type and kind of person that you are,ooh well maybe next life time.people expect certain things from others that they themselves would never stand for, and your opposition to the madness result in total alienation and name calling nothing new one of the many "pleasures" of dealing with people

truth is we dont have the manual to handling humans you just trust your insticnts and use what you have learnt throughout the years and hope that it wont offend anyone and by the grace of God someone will first seek understanding before passing judgement.i guess the only thing we cant do is better oneself and hope that what you do nd how you act will rub off on those around you..;)